It’s Starting, It’s Ending
Bug is Officially a Senior in High School. His last year in high school started this morning…. The other day, he remarked, “School has gone so fast – all my school, all 12 years – I can’t believe it’s almost over.”
He’s evidently forgotten he’s going to college….(come hell or high water!)
Even though I have spent the last 12 years fighting the educational system, or figuring out ways to help him learn, or, or, or….all of which can be a really really REALLY time consuming, drag-out affair, I agree with him.
It’s sad, too.
And while I feel sad, because I know he’s growing up and will soon be an adult, the thought of this next year scares the bejeezus out of me.
Will we get all his transition goals crammed in time? Will he be able to keep his grades up, between chemistry and statistics and French III? Will we have all the college applications and stuff organized so that nothing gets left out?
It’s SO hard for kids like him to get into college in the first place, and I think his essays have been fairly thoughtful. However, they all talk about his Asperger’s, since it has pretty much determined the structure of his life. Sometimes you read that it’s not good to talk about your disability when filling out college applications. I am not sure of that. It’s not like they wouldn’t know he had issues, if they met him. The poor SAT scores have to be explained and/or justified somehow, and he’s not writing about those, but it would at least supply the Why when they decide to hang on to his app, or trash it.
Colleges want to accept students who will succeed. If a student like Bug, who in Kindergarten could not talk more than 1 or 2 words at a time, can attain and keep a 3.56 GPA in high school, can play the trumpet on an advanced level, can keep a positive attitude no matter what gets thrown at him, I would say that student could succeed. In fact, he’s probably the best role model any college could ask for.
But that’s me, I’m biased.
Oh, I forgot. He’s on student council this year.
In the meantime, he’s excited about his senior year – so excited to get started, that he stood for a half hour in 90 degree heat waiting for the bus this morning.
GO BUG. You are AWESOME.


